By Stephen Winham, Guest Columnist
I have, for quite some time now, and in many different places, seen evidence that my reality is significantly different from that of people who support President Trump and his Republican Party. I could tell myself these were just very large differences of opinion until a recent incident.
A woman in the neighborhood with whom I visit several times a week during morning walks is, unabashedly, very conservative politically. We both know better than to ever discuss politics on these walks. We love our pets and our conversations usually revolve around them and neighborhood goings-on. Our visits are always pleasant and fun – She is vivacious and has a great sense of humor.
One day last week I mentioned in a Facebook post that I consider the President of the United States to be a psychopath. She responded that she is positive he is not a psychopath and pointed out that her studies are in that field. She followed through with a list of traits of psychopaths in support of her position. I looked at the list and found it very much confirmed my position. Here are 7 traits of a (modern) psychopath from a 2018 piece in Psychology Today. They are consistent with her list:
- Pathological Lying and Manipulation
2. Lack of Morality and Rule Breaking
3. Lack of Empathy and Cold-Heartedness
4. Narcissism and False Superiority Complex
5. Gaslighting and Psychological Bullying
6. Lack of Contrition and Self-Serving Victimhood
7. Situational” Psychopathy – the individual extends cordiality, respect, and regard towards some, but exhibits inhumanity, harshness, and cruelty towards others.
It turns out we both have master’s degrees in psychology and even attended the same university, though at different times. Her Master’s Degree is from Texas A & M. Mine is from Louisiana Tech. We grew up in the same part of Louisiana. We live in the same relatively small neighborhood. She is younger than me, but by less than 15 years so we have had some of the same experiences as adults. To my mind, the only explanation for our total difference on this is that we really do see the sitting President in completely opposite ways. She presented this list to support her position that he is not a psychopath, yet it confirms my position he is.
The reason this is so important is that I often hear supporters of Donald J. Trump say things like, “He’s a scoundrel, but I support his and his party’s policies so I am able to overlook his boorish behavior and bad personality.” Being a psychopath is a far cry from just being a scoundrel or boor. Psychopaths are actually and truly dangerous. It is often said they lack what we call a conscience. This is a HUGE difference.
The thing that makes Donald Trump a little less dangerous than other psychopaths is that he is also essentially unlikeable. Some would use this distinction to define him as a sociopath rather than a psychopath, but that is hardly something to claim as a bragging right. The most dangerous psychopaths are charming and able to get away with more.
Despite his dour and bullying personality, Donald Trump has wide personal appeal. It is seen by his admirers as refreshing candor, toughness and, of all things, honesty – despite the fact he lies daily, sometimes repeatedly in the same day. Do some people like this, or do they actively ignore it?
What is there to admire in a person with any of the 7 traits listed above? How can anybody observe him and not see him exhibit each one of them? I submit any person with normal intelligence can see them in him quite easily. No degrees or diplomas are required. To his credit, he does nothing to cover them up and they are on display constantly, but even when people of ostensibly similar backgrounds see him do and say precisely the same things, we really do not.
How is this complete dissonance of perception possible? I frankly do not know, but it is the most frightening thing about Donald John Trump as President of the United States of America. How can we possibly unite as a people to create a better country and world if we are unable to experience the same reality and see the same clear and present danger he presents?
I know many of you reading this will pass it off as meaningless in the face of the looming socialism, nay communism, you see in the Democratic Party and its candidate. Many of you have closely held religious beliefs that justify your support despite your dislike of President Trump’s personal behavior and a lack of concrete evidence he supports your views. I can only stress, again, that his are not just character flaws. President Trump’s psychopathy should set off alarms so loud that you could never vote for him, just as you believe you could never vote for Joe Biden. Please re-think your position. This is not just about you or me – it is about our collective survival.
(Stephen Winham is a retired State Budget Director for the State of Louisiana. He resides in St. Francisville.)


